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Delight Your Woman and Give Her What She Wants- You Want it, too!
By Kelly Wolf
Did you know that bringing your partner pleasure can only increase your own pleasure? Unfortunately, most men havent taken the time to slow down, pay attention and try to focus while making love to their partner. Intimacy issues, lack of mutual sex drive and other factors tend to overshadow so much of how a couple makes love to each other. The act of sex becomes more of a function that leads to the relief of sexual tension than about enjoying the process and each other. Using a new approach when making love can not only increase sexual pleasure for both partners, but it can also increase intimacy and the desire for similar experiences more frequently!
Its a fact that a womans sexual needs are far more complicated than a mans sexual needs, but not many men take the time to research, experiment, pay attention to reactions and even talk with his partner about what she would like in bed. Just think about how much more she might look forward to and actually desire sex- sometimes enough to initiate it on her own- if you gave her something to look forward to! Every woman has sexual urges and desires. It takes a patient and attentive man to help her discover those feelings and to be comfortable in enjoying them.
The first step you need to take in order to please your partner is to take your time! You may be rock hard and ready to go, but a womans body works quite differently than a mans body does. She needs to warm up and gradually become aroused. This is a very common mistake with many couples and the lack of patience and sensitivity to her warming up process can make or break the entire love making experience.
To begin the arousal process, begin slowly. Treat her to a massage while avoiding all obvious erogenous areas including her breasts and vaginal area. Work up to those parts slowly after youve covered her entire body with a slow and attentive massage. In most cases, shell let you know when shes ready for a more intimate massage. Watch her reactions for what she likes and what she doesnt like. She may be either quiet or vocal, but if you pay attention you will learn how to read what indicates pleasure and what doesnt.
When you are both ready to move forward with more intense foreplay, it is crucial that you pay attention to what she enjoys and what she doesnt like! Repeated attempts to do what you want instead of what she likes can result in a frustrating situation for both partners. Learn about a womans erogenous zones and try each one out individually while paying attention to her reactions. Not all women derive the same pleasure from the same erogenous zone! Repeatedly pay attention to what works for her and avoid what doesnt, no matter how much you may want to do it.
It is a rare woman that is comfortable being completely naked in front of anyone and you need to be aware of that fact. Make sure you dont call attention to her physical build with words. Instead, show her how much you enjoy her body with your eyes, hands and mouth. When you do use your mouth, you should try oral sex with your partner. Some women dont think they like it or they dont think that you could possibly like it. The key to good oral sex with a woman is to find her clitoris and stroke it over and over again. You can also play around with different motions by flicking it, sucking it gently or even gently tugging on it between your fingertips. Many women find that they can easily have an orgasm with enough attention to their clitoris!
Some women are more comfortable with the basic missionary position during sex, but once you have her aroused to the point of sheer passion, she may be open to trying new positions. A woman on top generally works well for her when it comes to reaching her climax, but every woman is different when it comes to what works best for her. If at all possible, do what you can to make sure she reaches orgasm first. She will turned on for future encounters by the fact that you life by the motto that she comes first.
Never hold back on telling her that you love her. When you feel it, you need to say it. She needs to hear it. Make sure you show her that you love her in other ways with small gifts, a flower or a phone call to let her know you are thinking of her. All of this can be a small form of foreplay to any woman and can only enhance intimacy when used in combination with all of the other information above. Once youve pleased her completely, youll be amazed at how much pleasure you get out of it! Youll also find that she will open up as a sexual being more than you thought she could. Living with the motto, She comes first, can make you both incredibly happy and satisfied.
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