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Get Ready to Blow Him Away!
By Kelly Wolf
Whether you like it or not, he wants you to give him fellatio (the oral stimulation of the penis)! There is more than just pleasure involved when a woman goes down on her man- oral sex provides an intimacy unlike any other. Just like most things in life, a woman needs to learn how to give her man good oral sex especially because the penis is a foreign part of the body to her and she cant possibly understand the way it works. Of course, the best way to learn about how a man likes his penis treated is to talk about it, but some women are simply too shy to do so or they want to surprise her man by doing something special and surprising. Learning how to give him great oral sex can make any lovemaking session an unforgettable one for both partners.
When you get ready to perform oral sex, make sure you get into the mindset that you are performing fellatio for his enjoyment. Men really dont want a woman who makes it known that she is doing it against her will or it is an undesirable task. If you are able to actually enjoy it or act as if you are enjoying it, it is more likely to be over quicker and you will be able to move on to things that you may enjoy more. You may even find that over time you might begin to get used to fellatio and even look forward to his responses to your stimulation.
If some other factor like smell or a bad taste puts you off from performing fellatio, you need to find a way to address the issue without making anyone uncomfortable. A shower or bath as foreplay can help eliminate many of these issues and can be suggested as nothing more than a way to ignite passion. When you are ready to perform fellatio, make sure that both you and your partner are comfortable. Sometimes positioning happens naturally while other times it takes some minor effort. If you are trying to take in as much of his penis as you can or deep throating, you may want to align your throat with his penis for easier access and less gag reflexing.
Depending on your man, he may not respond well if you approach his erection by immediately sucking. In order for him to eventually have a better orgasm, start out by teasing his penis. Begin with kissing, licking and some gentle finger play on his thighs, testicles and up his erection towards his glans head. Once at the head of his penis, use your tongue to gently stimulate the area. Make sure to thoroughly tease his frenulum, or the underside of the glans head. You should be driving him crazy at this point, but you should tease for too long. Once he is this excited, it may only frustrate him to be continually teased.
The key to good oral sex for a man is in variety and not being too repetitive. A woman who does the same motion over and over with her mouth and head will also become quite sore and tired rather quickly. Make sure you use your hands to assist you in pleasuring your man. Dont forget to pay attention to his testicles, thighs and buttock area. Dont be predictable and always keep him guessing as to what you will do next. If you want to know when to get ready for his orgasm, watch his testicles. They will often look tight and pulled closer to the body.
Once you feel that youve mastered these techniques, you can become more creative and versatile. Try using lubricant to enhance your movements and his sensitivity. You can also use foods such as whipped cream or warm syrups to play around and enhance both of your experiences.
Some couples welcome sex toys into their lovemaking experience and you can do the same when performing fellatio. Try using yours or his own special vibrator, an oral stimulator or a cock ring. There are many different toys available and a visit to your local adult store or online store can help you and your partner to see what interests you.
Sometimes a man likes to have his prostate stimulated during oral sex. To do this, you will have to insert your finger into his anus and stroke the prostate several times to provide stimulation. If you and your partner decide to try this, make sure that the anal area is cleaned immediately before entering the anus and any finger or toy that is used inside his anus is cleaned before touching anything else.
Another very pleasurable experience for any man is for his woman to practice deep throating. Deep throating is when a woman takes her partners erection all the way into her mouth and into the throat. Everyone has a gag reflex and it takes practice to take in the penis while training yourself not to gag. Each time you perform oral sex, take the penis in deeper and deeper. Eventually you will find you are able to take all of him in without gagging.
Once he ejaculates, you shouldnt stop performing fellatio. Continue to gently stimulate his erection with either your mouth or your hand (or both) for a while longer. Some men cant handle the sensitivity of this play while others find that it heightens their next climax. Take your cue from your man!
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