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How to Get into Group Sex or Orgies
By Tim Blackstock
A lot of people fantasize about group sex. Although orgies do sound fun, they're not something you just get into without doing a little research. An orgy is a serious thing, and unless you know exactly what you're doing, it won't be as enjoyable or worthwhile for you. Here are some things you should consider before you get into the sack with a group:
Know your limits. First, you need to be concrete about the things you want, the things you can do, and the things you are willing to try. Know these things well and be honest about yourself. Doing this will allow you to be more comfortable during the act itself.
Communicate your limits, needs, and wants to the people in your group. Be honest about what you really want. This informs the other members of your group about your degree of participation and what they can do to make you feel more comfortable. Doing this also helps build trust and confidence within the group. Also, let them know whether you enjoyed it or not. Telling them which parts you enjoyed the most will definitely make things more pleasurable for you next time.
Agree on some ground rules. There should be some rules when it comes to orgies, especially if you're participating with your girlfriend/boyfriend. There could be some issues of jealousy, so you have to set some rules about what things are off limits. The group should also, at the very least, agree that they will stop the session if someone starts feeling uncomfortable about it.
Keep things private. If you want the group to remain trusting, don't talk to people outside of the group about the things you do during orgies. It's bad manners to do so, and most orgy groups have this as a general rule. Not everybody understands group sex, and you don't want to be uncomfortable when you realize that you just told your very conservative co-worker about your exploits.
Be safe and protected. Only join group sex if you feel like you can trust the other participants. Also, bring ample protection such as condoms or diaphragms to keep your sexual health intact. Since you're having sex with multiple partners, your exposure to sexually transmitted diseases and infections is much higher.
If you do it right, group sex could be very enjoyable for you. You can learn a lot about your own body, as well as the bodies of other people. Most of all, don't forget to have fun!
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