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Am I being too picky waiting for the man who will cause fireworks to erupt
I just started dating after being divorced almost two years ago. At first I was still hurting from my broken up marriage, but I have discovered that men seem to like me. Some have told me I have classic beauty: tall, long hair, blue eyes. These are things my ex never said to me. But while these men find me attractive, I don't particularly care for any of them. They seem nice and everything, but there is no Spark. Am I being too picky waiting for the man who will cause fireworks to erupt or should I date some of those �nice� men in hopes some sparks may happen?
I don't get why you're waiting. If the men who are approaching you don't cut it, approach the ones who do. It seems part of the problem may be you don't have your own identity. It's nice when others find you attractive, but didn't you think you were cute to begin with? It's certainly safe to wait until people approach you, but it seems like you don't think they know what they're talking about when they approach you so you reject them out of hand. That's pretty safe, but it doesn't get you what you want.
Take your tall, blue eyed self out of your comfort zone and approach the guy that piques your interest. In the meantime, it might not hurt to go out with one of those "nice" guys, if for nothing more than the practice.
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