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How to Handle Single Girls
By Brian McDonald
Lots of guys are afraid to approach girls who haven't had enough dating experience. Whether they haven't had a boyfriend since birth or haven't had as many as expected, some guys just tend to lose interest. If you're one such guy, you might be missing out on a great dating opportunity by veering away from the "less experienced" single girls.
One reason why this is so is that guys are excited by competition. They like the idea of getting the girl that many other boys go after. This gives the guy a sense of accomplishment and superiority. It's that whole Alpha Male status that many guys go after. Because if the girl chooses him, he is likely to feel like he's the best guy around. It may even be true. IF he gets chose, he feels like he's The Man.
Another reason could be that he is questioning his own choice if he chooses the single, inexperienced girl. Why haven't any other guys liked her? Am I wrong in choosing her? The kind of guy who asks these questions may not have enough confidence in his judgment when it comes to making decisions about the women he chooses. He is afraid of what his friends will say because he cannot defend his actions. Besides, it's very easily to get put down by peer pressure.
The third reason could be that guys are afraid to hurt a girl who may be experiencing romance for the first time. He is afraid that he may not meet her expectations. She doesn't have a good idea yet of what goes on in the dating scene, and she may be disappointed. Most guys don't want to be that guy who "isn't that great". He also doesn't want to be the first to give her heartbreak.
But this way of thinking is unfair for the ladies, experienced or not. Everyone should pick a date based on attraction or common interests and not by experience. It is not fair for the guy as well. What if he likes her very, very much? He is being unfair to himself by not opening up to a chance to get to know her better.
This is not to say that you can go around breaking girls' hearts. The important thing is to keep in mind that she is new to all this. Give her a chance to know the dating scene, and maybe you too.
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